Mar 26 - DAY 42 - The People-Pleaser Trap

Day 42

The People-Pleaser Trap

For we are God's masterpiece.

He has created us anew in Christ Jesus,

so that we can do the good things

he planned for us long ago.

Ephesians 2:10 NLT

The final, final chapter of Rick Warren’s book is another trap – The People-Pleaser Trap.

Again we ask, Why after watching people for ten more years after this bestseller’s first publication, did Rick Warren feel need to add this particular chapter? Why? Because trying to please people is one of our biggest barriers to pleasing other people.

Rick Warren asks it simply and profoundly: Whose approval are you living for?

•      I’ve watched adults be paralyzed as they’re still living for some parent’s reluctant approval.
•      I’ve watched teens be blown about in hundreds of harmful directions as they seek the approval of peers.
•      I’ve watched young girls give themselves away to the first person who even hints (often disingenuously) that they love her.
•      I’ve watched employees stab a co-worker in the back to curry a boss’s favor.
•      I’ve watched girls starve themselves half to death trying to look like the pictures in the magazines.
•      I’ve watched boys slip into depression when they don’t measure up to the (often athletic) standards that seem to define young men.

Therefore, Rick Warren asks, whose approval are you really living for?

One of my favorite lines is …

Live your life for

an Audience of One!

Another is …

If God has already justified you,

why do you spend so much energy

trying to justify yourself before others?

God loves you. Just the way you are! Do you know how I know that? He created you!!!

When we realize that we are God’s masterpiece, then we start looking for his approval rather than the world’s approval.

Make a list today: Who’s approval do you still seek in this life?

Chances are, if you’re still seeking that person’s approval, then either you don’t measure up in their judgmental eyes … or you don’t measure up in your own insecure eyes. If a judgmental person is your standard, then you have the wrong standard. And if you’re insecure, it’s a matter of faith (or faithlessness, or unforgiveness – indeed being unable to forgive yourself).

It’s time to trust God. Trust that he loves, forgives, and is not judgmental. He loves you the way he made you! (And in those ways that the world “unmakes” us, he’s literally dying to restore us. Just think of the cross.)

In Christ’s Love,

a guy for whom it took

a lot of years (and

eventually a lot of faith)

to be comfortable

in his own skin

… and now I can

live with joy and purpose

Mar 25 - DAY 41 - The Envy Trap

Day 41

The Envy Trap

O give thanks to the Lord,

for he is good;

for his steadfast love

endures forever.

1 Chronicles 16:34

After writing one of the bestselling books of all time, why do you think – in the tenth anniversary edition – he adds a chapter called,  “The Envy Trap.”

My supposition is that he’s studied people for ten more years and this is one of the biggest barriers to joy and purpose that he still finds.

We can’t be happy If we’re

comparing ourselves to others.

There’ll always be someone taller, faster, smarter, better looking, and lighter in weight than us. There’ll always be someone who has a bigger house, newer car, and better job. There’s only one “best” in any category, and most of those folks are totally average in a million other categories.

What envy does is rob us of satisfaction.

But it’s even more insidious than that. Envy essentially causes us to spit in God’s face. (Whoa! That sounds harsh, but think about it …) Rather than being grateful for the way we’re created and for the gifts we’ve been given, we spend our lives complaining about the things we don’t have.

Children do this to their parents. In our society, all our kids have gifts and possessions than they’ll ever really need (even most very poor American kids are very rich compared to the world’s and history’s standards). So what do parents do when our kids complain about what they don’t have. At first, we roll our eyes. They’re being childish. But what happens when that complaining turns into their view of life. They’re dissatisfied with life and angry at you for not providing exactly what they want.

Have you ever had your kid essentially “spit in your face,” complaining about their gifts and “needing” more and bigger and better and different. We sure have. (Fortunately it occurred frequently enough and at an early enough age that our boys learned – through raised voices and strong consequences – not to complain! It always brought them worse results.)

I got mad as a father at complaining kids. How do you think our heavenly Father feels about the poison of our envy. If it’s rare, he’ll roll his eyes at our childishness. If it becomes a pattern, he’ll grieve.

The antidote to envy is thanksgiving. If your soul ever seems heavy, make a list of your blessings.

In Christ’s Love,

A guy who’s favorite

thankfulness song

is from Bing Crosby …

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXKxazgio2s

Mar 24 - DAY 40 - Living With Purpose

What’s your purpose statement? That’s Rick Warren’s final question – at least in the old edition of the book.

I developed my purpose statement for ministry a dozen years ago. It is …

Deeper Faith

Joyful Community

Reaching More

Is that my personal purpose statement too?

Yes. A pastor’s personal life is inextricably connected to his ministry. It’s hard to know where ministry ends and life begins.

That’s how it should be with EVERY life, though. Life should be ministry. And ministry should be life.

As I look at Rick Warren’s five purposes, they fit nicely into my own purpose statement:

Deeper Faith is Worship and Discipleship

Joyful Community is Fellowship

Reaching More is Service and Evangelism

Now … rarely do I hold all five in perfect balance. I’m better at some than others. And in various seasons, one tends to get emphasized more than another. The goal of my life is to balance all three (or really five), because when I’m unbalanced … I’m unbalanced!!!

You’ve heard me mention Jesus’ method of ministry – UP, OUT and IN.

•      He spent the morning pointing UP in prayer (worship and discipleship).
•      He spent the afternoon pointing OUT in service and evangelism.
•      He spent his evenings gathering back IN with his disciples (fellowship and more discipleship).

Those are two ways that I seek to fulfill the five purposes. What’s yours?!!! In fact, please send me your personal mission statement! Let’s celebrate how God is working in your life.

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who’s UP too early

OUT too late and

IN too little

… ahhh …

now I’m reminded

to rebalance!

(That’s what a purpose

statement is for!!!)

Mar 23 - DAY 39 - Balancing Your Life

Day 39

Balancing Your Life

Jesus answered,

"You shall love the Lord your God

with all your heart, and with all your soul,

and with all your strength,

and with all your mind;

and your neighbor as yourself."

Luke 10:27

Today, Rick Warren starts with an interesting phrase: “Blessed are the balance; they shall outlast everyone.”

His reasoning? Like a pentathlete, we need to succeed in all five events – all five purposes – if we’re going to win the prize.

Greatness is not about winning and earthly prize. (In fact, in yesterday’s devotion, I wrote briefly about a disgraced Olympian.) Greatness comes from doing the most important things greatly.

And what’s most important? Two things that Christian tradition calls “great”: The Great Commandment and the Great Commission.

•      The Great Commandment says 1) Love God (heart, soul, strength, and mind) and 2) Love Your Neighbor as Yourself.
•      The Great Commission adds two more purposes: 3) Go and Make Disciples, 4) Baptizing them, and 5) Teaching them.

Rick Warren tells us that in these two simple statements is a summary of how to accomplish all five of life’s purposes. 1) In loving God, we worship. 2) In loving neighbor, we serve. 3) In going and making disciples, we evangelize. 4) Through baptism, we create community (fellowship). And 5) in teaching, there is discipleship.

After thirty-nine chapters, the “to-do list” could get overwhelming. But Rick Warren is saying, “Stop. Relax. Life is really pretty simple. Just worry about doing two things: follow the great command and fulfill the great commission.”

Now, those two things are big enough to fill a whole, big, wonderful life. But they’re really not that complicated. Love God and others. And the more you love God, the more you’ll want to learn about him. And the more you learn about him, the more you’ll want to tell about him. And finally, the more you love other people, the more you’ll simply want to help (and serve) them.

Near the end of the book, I found today’s reflections very helpful. “Don’t be overwhelmed. Just love!”

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who wants to wear

his heart on his sleeve

Mar 22 - DAY 38 - Becoming a World Class Christian

Day 38

Becoming a

World Class Christian

We fix our eyes not on what is seen,

but on what is unseen.

For what is seen is temporary,

but what is unseen is eternal.

2 Corinthians 4:18

Rick Warren’s theme for today is “Becoming a World Class Christian.”

That title reminded me of a friend. He was giving an important talk. He wrote it months ahead. He came up with great illustration. To powerfully describe character and perseverance, he decided to use the example of a world class athlete.

Just days before the speech, he cut the illustration, however. Why?

He was going to talk about an inspirational athlete from 2012 Summer Olympics, who ran magnificently even though he was born without legs.

You probably know why he cut the illustration.

While Oscar Pistorius was a world class athlete, he turned out not to be such an inspirational person! A few days before the speech, the “blade runner” allegedly murdered his girlfriend in a fit of rage.

What does it really mean to be “world class”?

We live in a culture of hero worship. We seem to always have sports idols and music idols and teen magazine heart throbs. But world class is more than being “famous” or being the “best” at something.

In fact, being world class in God’s eyes is really the exact opposite of being famous. It’s being humble.

Rick Warren says, “[to become] world class … shift from self-centered thinking to other-centered thinking.” “Humbling yourself,” “taking the lowest seat,” “serving rather than wanting to be served” – Jesus’s principles – are the art of becoming “world class.”

Furthermore, what world class really means is caring for the world in a very passionate way. And we care for it best when we are sharing how to be saved from this broken world – how to know Christ and earn a “ticket” to heaven.

“World Class,” then, is really being “Heaven Class.”

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who doesn’t own

any pedestals

(it’s dangerous to put

oneself or anyone else

on them … because they fall)

Mar 21 - DAY 37 - Sharing Your Life Message

Day 37

Sharing Your Life Message

Be ready at all times

to answer anyone who asks you

to explain the hope you have in you,

but do it with gentleness and respect.

1 Peter 3:15-16 TEV

“One more for Jesus.”

That was the final cry of Rick Warren’s dying father. His passion – even at the end of his own life – was “one more.”

Think about it … in death, this old pastor was going to a place where only one thing on earth mattered – Did you know Jesus … or not?

The name of the book we’ve been reading – subtitled on the first edition, almost the title on the second edition – is “What on Earth am I Here For?” And indeed, the only thing on earth that really matters is, “Do you know Jesus?”

Then … once you’ve checked that box, only one other thing really matters, “Are you making him known.”

That’s actually the official mission of many churches: “To Know Christ and Make Him Known.” (In fact, that’s not a bad personal mission statement either: “What on Earth am I Here for? To Know Christ and to Make Him Known.”)

Now, if you’re following along with Rick Warren, so far I’ve been covering yesterday’s chapter, haven’t we? Today’s focus then is the beginning of “How?”

Let me encourage you to do something today. I obviously spend some time writing these devotions for you. I want you to spend some time writing a devotion for someone else.

A testimony is “the story of how you began a relationship with Jesus.” Write down your testimony. Tell how you came to know the Lord. (It doesn’t have to be big and dramatic. For many of us, it was slow and gradual.) But tell how you came to know God and what’s the difference he makes in your life.

•      You do this first for you benefit. It’s practice for sharing the story if and when God gives you the chance. 
•      Second, practice telling it … even among your closest church friends. You’ll see in their eyes the parts that resonate. And with practice, you’ll learn to tell it simply, quickly, and powerfully.
•      Finally, start praying about the first person you will share it with. You may have a person in mind. Or God may have a person in mind that you’re not even aware of yet.

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who couldn’t

come to know God fully

until he was fully humbled,

and doesn’t want others

to have to be humbled

before they know God

Mar 20 - DAY 36 - Made for a Mission

Day 36

Made for a Mission

Jesus said,

As the Father has sent me,

I am sending you.

John 20:21 NIV

“God wants you to have both a ministry in the Body of Christ and a mission in the world.”

Look close. What’s the difference between ministry and mission?

Ministry is pointed in – in toward the church. And it’s critical. If the body of Christ is to function, the church desperately needs people to use their gifts. Some teach and other lead songs. Some fix church toilets and others balance the checkbook. Some care for the children; others love to visit the sick and elderly.

Scripture tells us that we each have gifts to bless the church. This is “ministry,” and as Rick Warren says, “God [definitely] wants you to have … a ministry in the Body of Christ.

“God [also] wants you to have a mission in the world.” What’s mission compared to ministry. Well, if ministry is “in,” then mission is “out.”

Rick Warren tells us that mission comes from the Latin roots that mean “sent.” Jesus tells us to go – to “go to the people of all nations and make them my disciples” (Mt 28:19). History calls these words – which include, “teach [the people of all nations]” – the Great Commission.

Lutherans are not always comfortable with mission – especially when we call it evangelism. Ethnically, Lutherans are from cold weather countries. We’re quiet, stoic, and humble.

In general, we’d rather let our actions speak for themselves. This can be a valid start to evangelism. And historically the Lutheran church has done some great things. But mission is also personal. Who are you telling? Who do you need to tell?

At the beginning of this week, that last question is a good place to start: “Who do you need to tell?” Starting today, begin praying for them. Praying and praying and praying.

In Christ’s Love,

A guy who loves the old saying,

“Before you talk to your friend about Jesus,

talk to Jesus about your friend.”

Mar 19 - DAY 35 - God's Power in Your Weakenss

Day 35

God’s Power in

Your Weakness

God purposely chose … what

the world considers weak

in order to shame the powerful

1 Corinthians 1:27 TEV

I used to play basketball.

In sports, the leader is not the smartest person on the team. It is not the person with the most traditional leadership traits of vision and motivation. It is not the most vocal or best communicator. The leader is simply the best player.

He may be a jerk, but everybody defers to him. You pass the ball when he demands. You move to where he positions you on defense.

In the pros, sometimes even the coaches defer to the superstar – coaches are generally more plentiful and more expendable than a rare athletic talent.

In sports – and in much of the world – leadership is all about strength.

Not so in the kingdom of God!

God values weakness … humility … willingness … and submission.

Think about it … God is God. He can do whatever he wants. He can conquer nations with his pinky finger. He doesn’t need our service to change the course of history. And yet the Lord of all creation chooses to work through us.

With all this in mind, it’s not our strength that God needs. (He has strength to spare.) What he needs is our weakness, our willingness, our humility, and our submission. The Lord doesn’t compel us to act. Rather, he invites us on a journey. And when weak people open their hearts and allow God to work greatly through them, that’s when an unbelieving world finally notices the stirring of God.

When mild-mannered human beings do inhumanly wonderful and powerful things, God is seen through their weakness.

There was a time when I wanted to be strong. Nowadays, I realize than I’m stronger when I’m weak. I’m more useful when I’m submitted.

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who was never

the center of attention

on the ball court

Mar 18 - DAY 34 - Thinking Like a Servant

Day 34

Thinking Like a Servant

My servant Caleb thinks differently

and follows me completely.

Numbers 14:24 NCV

Do you remember who Caleb was? Here’s the quick and mostly familiar story …

•       Out of their slavery, the people of Israel cried to the Lord for a deliverer, and God raised up Moses.
•       After a mighty display of wonders, God led Israel out of bondage and set them on the path to the Promise Land.     
•       It was supposed be a quick trip from Egypt to the shores of the Jordan. 
•       The final preparatory step along this journey was sending twelve scouts – one from each tribe – into the Promised Land.
•       According to all twelve scouts (spies), it was a land flowing with milk and honey.
•       Nevertheless, ten reported that the people in Canaan were too powerful to defeat and advised against going into the land.
•       Two of the twelve – Joshua and Caleb – said essentially, “Yes, the people are strong, but our God is stronger!!!”
•       In other words, “My servant Caleb thinks differently and follows me completely.”

Thinking differently than the rest of the world is a good thing. “If God is for us,” ask faithful servants like Caleb, “who can be against us?” (Faithful servants like Paul ask these questions too – see Romans 8:31.) And faithful servants – like Joshua and Caleb … and Peter and Paul – get to see the Promised Land, rather than getting stuck forever in the wilderness.

In today’s reading from The Purpose-Driven Life, Rick Warren challenges us to think like a servant …

•       A servant understands first who the master is. (God.)
•       Then the servant looks to see what the master values. (Other people.)
•       Then the faithful servant devotes himself or herself to these priorities. (In love.)      
•       A good and faithful servant also and wisely patterns themselves after the best servant – Jesus.

When it comes to serving, what steps are you best at? What steps need more attention in your life?

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who wants to see

the Promised Land (every day

… and not just in the future)

  

Mar 17 - DAY 33 - How Real Servants Act

Day 33

How Real Servants Act

Jesus said,

“If you give even a cup of cold water

to one of the least of my followers,

you will surely be rewarded.”

Matthew 10:42 NLT

In the first spiritual gifts class I led as a pastor was an eighty-year-old woman.

At an age when most people are slowing down, Joyce said she wanted to know how God could use her.

This made us laugh. Joyce was already one of the most productive servants we’d ever known. We figured that this grandmother must have spent every morning baking so she could spend every afternoon giving it away.

On election day, for example, I used to tease other people in church. “My polling place is better than your polling place.” “Why?” they’d ask. “Because Joyce was giving away cookies at my polling place.”

The only sad part of this was … that Joyce didn’t know already how big of a servant’s heart she already had. She carried a little guilt. “I ought to do more.” But that’s the way it is with many true, True, TRUE servants, she wasn’t proud. Her service was “unconscious” rather than “conscious.” Therefore, she felt like she should be consciously doing more.

In truth however, she naturally fulfilled many of Rick Warren’s characteristics of “real servanthood” …

•       Real servants make themselves available to serve.
•       Real servants pay attention to needs.
•       Real servants do their best with what they have.
•       Real servants do every task with equal dedication.
•       Real servants are faithful to their ministry.
•       Real servants maintain a low profile.

Does that sound like Joyce?

Does that sound like you?

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who wants

to be unconscious

Mar 16 - DAY 32 - You Were Shaped for Serving God

Day 32

You were Shaped

for Serving God

Make a careful exploration of

who you are and the work

you have been given,

and then sink yourself into that.

Galatians 6:4b MSG

What do you do best?

What do you put your best effort into?

The first is a question of gifts. The second is a matter of priorities.

We ought to strive hard at parenting. We ought to devote ourselves to being an honorable spouse. We ought to work diligently at our jobs. But, as Rick Warren says, “God deserves your best.”

The simple way to determine what you value most is to examine how you spend your time and to what you give your highest priority. Serving family is critical. Working hard is important. Discovering a joyful hobby is refreshing. But God deserves our best.

With that in mind, how does God and faith stack up in your list of priorities?

This is why discovering our spiritual gifts can be so important.

•      When we’re operating in of our area of giftedness, things come easy and we discover joy. Understanding our gifts also helps us focus. We can devote our time to what is best and not get as bogged down in the extraneous.
•      Serving within our area of giftedness also inspires us serve more … and serve more fully … and give of ourselves more joyfully.
•      “Accepting and enjoying our shape,” as Rick Warren puts it, makes it easier to make God and faith a priority. If service in the kingdom produces so much fruit, why wouldn’t we be serving readily?!!

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who’s shape and passion

is helping others know God

more fully

Mar 15 - DAY 31 - Understanding Your Shape

Day 31

Understanding Your Shape

There are different kinds of spiritual gifts

… different ways of serving … [and]

different abilities to perform service.

1 Corinthians 12:4-6

We all know what talents are.

But do you know what a spiritual gift is? It is a gift, given by God, for the specific purpose of blessing the church.

I might have had a talent for basketball. I could jump high. It was a gift. But it wasn’t a spiritual gift.

Now, I’ve known of plenty of athletes who’ve leveraged their secular talents into a platform for sharing the Gospel. But generally speaking, athletic gifts are not spiritual gifts.

The first time I discerned a clear and total spiritual gift occurred on my first Sunday as a student pastor. I’ve always been horrible at names. If I’m introduced to someone at a ballgame or a party, I won’t remember their name for two seconds. On my first Sunday as a pastor, however, names of people – my new church family – stuck to my mind like fly paper. I’d flipped through the directory once, and someone would say, “Hi, my name is Bill Johnson,” and I’d finish his sentence, “and this must be your wife, Mary, and your three kids, Bobby, Joe, and Sue.” And we’d all go, “Wow” – including me.

The exact opposite happened to one of my seminary professors. He was an absent-minded theologian who decided to teach rather than preach when he couldn’t remember anyone’s name in the congregation. “When there was funeral at my internship congregation,” he’d say, “the name of the deceased would never register. I’d have to peak in the casket to see who died.”

His spiritual gift was big brain, useful for blessing the whole church by teaching a generation of pastors. Me, on the other hand, I’m a simple parish pastor. But in a congregation, God has given me the supernatural gift of remembering names and loving people – as opposed to my natural tendency of being totally forgetful.

God has given you a gift … or two … or thirteen. Yes, you have worldly talents. But how has God blessed you specifically for service in the kingdom?

And if you haven’t figured that out yet, it’s time to start trying new roles. It’s like trying on new clothes. For a season, try something new and see if it fits. If it does, it will be an incredible blessing to you … and to the whole church. And if this new role isn’t your purpose, you trudge through for a season, thankful to learn a little more about yourself.

Indeed, be like Thomas Edison. To find a suitable filament for the first light bulb, he tried hundreds of items unsuccessfully. Wait! It wasn’t unsuccessful. Rather, he took the attitude of: I discovered one more thing that’s not it … which means I’m one step closer to find what is it.

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who barely made it through secular

Public Speaking and English Composition classes

and now does both of those for a living

(do you think that might be a Spiritual Gift too?)

Mar 14 - DAY 30 - Shaped for Serving God

Day 30

Shaped for Serving God

I searched for a man among them

who would repair the wall and

stand in the gap before Me

on behalf of the land

Ezekiel 22:30a HCSB

My mom is a nurse. When I was a teenager, she started the Hospice in Wilmington, North Carolina.

At first the organization was very small – my mom and two part-time nurses. With little to no revenues, she was practically volunteering her time, rather than drawing much of a salary. She’d always “take call” on the holidays, so her equally underpaid staff could count on time with their families. She modeled priorities and sacrifice.

My dad modeled the blessing of service too. For twenty-five years, my father became my mother’s chief volunteer. For example, he built a shed in our back yard. Why? To store hospital beds – old and used and donated from the local hospital. We’d frequently be eating dinner when my dad would say, “We’re going to deliver a hospital bed tonight.”

Now what do you think my response was?

•      I’d whine because those cast iron beds were heavy.
•      I’d whine about having plans (which were never much more than playing basketball in the backyard and watching TV).
•      I’d whine because dad would take forever to set up the bed just right and then visit lovingly with hurting strangers whose loved one was dying.
•      And then I’d whine one more time about having to go back to the same old house – sometimes only a few days later – to pick up the same old, heavy bed.

Service was a terrible inconvenience to a lazy teenager.

But I thank God for those days!

My parents taught me what life was all about.

Yes, I whined a little, but I quickly learned it did no good. They ignored it! In our house, there was simply no excuse for not doing the right thing.

We’ll talk for the next few days about spiritual gifts. God created you with unique talents … for the specific purpose of blessing the kingdom of God. But here’s the greatest gift of all …

Becoming a person

that stands in the gap

and simply says, “Yes!”

In Christ’s Love,

a yes-man,

thanks to my parents

Mar 13 - DAY 29 - Accepting Your Assignment

Day 29

Accepting Your Assignment

"Well done, you good and faithful servant!'

said his master. "You have been faithful

in managing small amounts, so I will

put you in charge of large amounts.

Come on in and share my happiness!'

Matthew 25:21 GNT

When people ask, “What’s my purpose?” what they traditionally think of is today’s theme. Rick Warren says, “You were put on earth to make a contribution.”

Indeed, when people ask, “What’s my purpose?” they’re generally thinking about contributions … and then legacies.

It’s at this point that we need to stop and remember our first three purposes:

•      Worship – loving God
•      Fellowship – loving others
•      Discipleship – becoming more Christ-like

If all we did in life was through first three things, we’d be well on our way to life of purpose and joy. Indeed, if we’re systematically becoming more Christ-like, we’re going to start serving God whether anyone (like Rick Warren) suggests you do or not. Indeed, becoming Christ-like naturally includes a life a service. Similarly, loving others more fully (fellowship) implies a life of service too.

So … why do we need a whole week on service? Because we’re sinful, slothful, selfish, weak, and distractible. That’s why Jesus says, love others and serve others. That’s why Jesus also says, be like me (discipleship) and help others too (service).

Rick Warren says, “You are created to serve God … [and] saved to serve God … [and] called to serve God … [and] commanded to serve God.” And the greatest words any of us could ever hear will be, “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matt 25:21).

If you want to hear these words,

Follow Jesus

Love Others

And get off your backside and simply serve

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who’s watched people

for twenty years: and

the most content are

always the servants

Mar 12 - DAY 28 - It Takes Time

Day 28

It Takes Time

so I am sure that God, who

began this good work in you,

will carry it on until it is finished

on the Day of Christ Jesus.

Phil 1:6 GNT

I was talking to someone recently. They were discouraged. They were middle aged, and like every one of us, they’d made a few mistakes in life. This person was wondering if their life would ever amount to more than it was right now. Have you ever been there?

I said, “Think about it this way.”

•      “How old was Jesus when he was baptized and began his public ministry?” About thirty.
•      And how old was he when died?” About thirty-three.
•      “If you don’t get hit by a bus,” I said to this friend, “how many more years of good health might you have left in life?” The person added in their head. About thirty-three good years.
•      “Do you see what I’m driving at?!!!” I said.
•      Jesus took thirty years to prepare his heart and grow in spiritual maturity. Then he had the three most impactful years of anyone in history.
•      “You can start over,” I said to this friend.
•      “You can live a life of significance.”
•      “And like Jesus, your impact can continue to grow and grow. You might not be where you want to be today, but imagine where you can be if you begin to focus.”

I could have been quoting Rick Warren on Day 28. “There are no shortcuts to maturity.”

•      There will be blessings every day.
•      Imagine how your impact will grow after a year of discipline and focus.
•      Your ideal may take thirty years, but that’s okay. You have the daily blessing of a Savior who is with you every step of the way.
•      Enjoy the journey.

In Christ’s Love,

a guy who doesn’t want

to be legalistic about

where he is or isn’t yet …

I just want to enjoy the journey

… with God